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调整认知,积极应对心理恐慌
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家有高三生,要知道不做什么
“老师,您能帮帮我吗?我已经没有办法了,唉……”“慢慢说,不着急。”2月21日,宋彩玲接到一位妈妈打来的求助热线,听着电话那头着急、焦虑的声音,她耐心引导,让对方放慢语速,把事情说了出来。原来对方的女儿今年要参加高考。因为疫情,孩子只能在家参加网课学习。学校为了便于班级管理,要求学生每天早上打卡报到。孩子因为睡觉晚,连续几天延误打卡。当妈妈接到老师打来的电话,得知孩子未按时打卡超过规定数量时,对孩子进行了严厉的批评。结果两人的关系开始恶化,孩子不但不按时吃饭,每天的网课学习也放弃了。妈妈为此万分焦急。
songcailingfeichanglijiezheiweimama。gaosanzhengshihaizixueyedeguanjianqi,mamaxiangtongguozuoyixieshiqing,ranghaizizhidaoruhezuocaishiduide,danzheizhongzuofawangwangshideqifan,bujinbuhuibangzhuhaizirenshidaoxueyeyijitaxianzaisuochuhuanjingdezhongyaoxing,fanerhuijiajuhaizidenifanxinli,chuxianyuzijixiangfabeidaoerchidezuofa。yushi,tayimiananfuduifangdeqingxu,yimiantongguohuayuyindaozheiweimamakanqingzheijianshiqingdeyuanyou,yijizenyangzuocaishidangqianzuiheshi。zuihou,tadeyijuhuarangduifangchedimingwu,congeryeyinglaileshiqingdezhuanji——“zheigeshihou,zhidaobuzuoshenmebizuoshenmehuigengyouxiao。”
严教下的花朵,我愿给你一束光
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焦虑中的孩子,请你放松下来
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编辑记者:
陈江宁